Help & Encouragement

Parents…do you feel this way?

Students…do you feel this way?

We have some great classes that WestGate is promoting. Parents, there are classes to learn how to positively discipline your kids. And students, here is a group that is for you to talk about your life.

TEENS:
Teen Talk: A place to talk to teens like you!
Ages 11-17

Have you ever felt like you are all alone? Ever wondered if other teens struggle with the same things that you do? Ever felt like you don’t fit in?

In this group you will:

• Get friendship tips
• Learn more about your family
• Learn ways to talk to your parents
• Learn ways to deal with emotions
• Learn to like yourself as you are
• And much, much more!

When: Wednesdays at 4PM starting November 16th OR
Wednesdays at 6PM starting November 30th

Where: Child & Family Counseling Group,
3880 South Bascom Avenue, Suite 115
San Jose, CA 95124

Cost: $50/session

PARENTS:
Positive Discipline: A Class for Parents of Teens & Tweens

“You parent the way you were parented, unless you are taught differently.” Many parents are finding the way they were parented just doesn’t work today. Yet parents don’t know what to do instead. Positive Discipline philosophy and tools show parents just that – what to do INSTEAD of punishment, reward, removal of privileges, and time-outs.

In this class you will gain and understanding of how to:

• Avoid the power struggles
• See misbehavior as an opportunity to teach nonpunitive discipline—not punishment
• Instill valuable social skills and positive behavior inside and outside the home by using methods that teach important life skills
• Employ family meetings to tackle behavioral challenges
• And much, much more!

When: 7 MONDAYS, BEGINNING NOVEMBER 7, 2011, 7PM – 8PM

Where: Child & Family Counseling Group, 3880 South Bascom Avenue, Suite 115
San Jose, CA 95124

Cost: $70/SESSION

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Ingrid Higgins, MA is a licensed Marriage Family Therapist with tons of experience working with teens and families. To Register: Contact Ingrid Higgins, MFT (408) 579-9806 ingrid@childfamilygroup.com

Elm Street Mission Thanksgiving 2011

Elm Street Mission has been serving the Homeless Population in Santa Cruz for years. They have seen tons of life change and Jesus working in the men and women that pass through this doors. We have a great opportunity to serve and bless the Mission. Ignition will be bringing a FULL THANKSGIVING DINNER! We are giving the amazing cook for the mission a night off and asking families to step up.

Sunday, November 27, 2011

2:30pm – 9:00pm – (NOT 5:00PM)

Sign up to bring food ———-> HERE!

Email Kathryn if you can drive. kathryn.obermeyer@westgatechurch.org

Email Mike with any other questions. mike.morales@westgatechurch.org

Elm Street Mission’s Website – www.elmstreetmission.com

SUICIDE

If you are reading this and thinking about suicide…CALL 911 right now!

Life Hurts, God Heals! Know that suicide is never an answer to get rid of problems. There are a number of articles and stories out right now of suicide and I just wanted to give you help and hope! Here are some LOCAL agencies around San Jose if you are thinking about suicide.

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650 S Bascom Ave, San Jose, CA (408) 683-2482

2221 Enborg Ln, San Jose, CA (408) 279-3312

2105 N Donovan Way, San Ramon, CA (925) 804-6494

8120 Westwood Dr, Gilroy, CA (408) 683-4118

PO Box 191350, San Francisco, CA (415) 984-1900

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Here is an article from the San Jose Mercury News – Web Bullying

Here is a video from the Ellen DeGeneres Show – An Important Message

PARENTS: Please do not think your student is safe! Talk about this issue. Its not an easy one but you do not want to take any chance. Pray hard for them and NEVER give up on them! Love them the way Christ loves us! There is hope! There is healing! There is a way out! Suicide is NOT the answer!

JESUS SAVES

Please post ENCOURAGING & HELPFUL comments below! Thanks!

Mike Morales

God comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.
(2 Corinthians 1:4 NLT)